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Originally Posted by Erebos
I often miss appointments, don't care what he does with his day, I don't even think about him unless I am on here.
I enI totally understand the OP's desire to not get entangled in some pseudo relationship that the T may not have the capability to deal with.
If I felt for one moment that was a possibility I would be out too.
You can only do what you feel is right, and if you don't feel able to discuss it with your T then maybe it's right to get out. All the best, take care.
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I am the same about the never think about him, don't care what he does comment. That's why I was confused about some of the replies on here
Anyway, I did go yesterday as I am going through hell right now and needed it, we did talk about my fear of attachment again for a bit. He said he has not had many of his clients go through it... but he has experienced it and is ok with, he keeps his boundaries of no interactions outside the office unless its email or calls, and I get that, but he told me to please not be afraid to tell him if anything starts to scare me about this, he will help me work through it. He promised he would not terminate me