Hi Rhapsody:
Sorry for the long lapse in between postings, but I'm afraid
that Cyrano triggered a negative bomb in me and I could not even approach the subject let alone take into consideration what he said. You see, I didn't bring anything
into the b-room in the beginning. It's only been in the first year of marriage that I started to wonder if maybe he had a tryst with something he thought was a woman over in Nam on one of his pit stops in Bangkok!!!! Sometimes that happened over there and it's likely that no man would ever come forward and admit that!!! I don't know that I would given the situation.
So, it's a very touchy subject around me. I'm sorry I ever brought it up. Now I feel like I did back then, I FAILED him.
Oh well. %#@&#! happens.