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Old Jun 10, 2017, 10:18 AM
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Originally Posted by BlueJeans00 View Post
I can't get my therapist out of my mind.
He always in my mind. Part of me doesn't want to let go of the transference I have for him, because that means I have to face my reality.
But for once I would like to have a break thinking about him.
I don't know if anyone has experienced this or if there is some psychology subconscious trick to the client. But my therapist has been wearing the same clothes for past 3 weeks. Every time I see him its same jumper with same shirt and pants and shoes. Why it bothers me, is because the past 10 months he hasn't been like this. Its always different clothes. So Im thinking why is he wearing the same clothes? Is it to affect my subconscious.
The way he dresses reminds me of my dad or some schol teacher or my grandad. Its actually annoying me now.
I know its sounds all trivial but seriously its getting my nose out of joint.

Does anyone know whats going on?
Similar thing happened to me a while back (thread:Repeat Pants Offender). Old t was wearing the same unique pants repeatedly. Got my "nose out of joint" too and I had no idea why. Drove me crazy. Eventually she stopped wearing the same pants and the thoughts stopped. I completely forgot about the whole perplexing ordeal until now but come to think of it, I don't think I ever saw her wear those same pants again. Weirdorama!
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