This is an outright plea for any ideas any of you may be able to offer.
There's a girl that I (unfortunately) became very close with as friends. Then, one day she just discarded me. She dropped me.
She moved on to others in the group. Confused, bewildered, I didn't understand what was happening. I tried to patch things up, even though I didn't know what I had done, but she was venomous with me. I tried being kind, happy, helpful. Nothing. She hated my guts for no apparent reason.
Then I learned she had started spreading outright lies about me. The unfortunate thing is that she is clever and manipulative and the queen bee of our group. She has been trying to get others in our friend group to distance themselves from me. Which they have. Now... everything is horrible. My friends have abandoned me, and they all hang out together and have inside jokes etc. They don't ever think of me and my husband to hang out with. They are polite and that's it. We have been ostracized. I'm so hurt by this that it's devastating sometimes. Some days I'm okay, but other days... it makes me so depressed and withdrawn. That's not like me. I'm usually happy and outgoing. I'm afraid I'm losing myself in this.

I don't know what to do...