All of the neighbor kids always hang out at my home and I love it because I know what my own kids are doing. That is fine. This, on the other hand, is a good friend from work that he works with that he wants to impress. My house is clean, just much more unkept because I've been so down. He hates when my house is a mess. He says if he works all day that it's not right that I can't manage the house. I understand and agree but he adds to my depression.

Heart to hearts don't work for him. He just doesn't understand. When I am well or manic, we get along fine.