Melissa doesnt really have any girlfriends she always mostly hung out with guys. She and I are just roomates we never dated she has one friend who is in a wheelchair and I have talked to her but I am not really intersted and I would feel like I had to see her if I took her out Melissa said that she is very co dependent and that I dont want to even get involved with her, I have been asking her if she knows any other women in recovery but she said that she would not like for me to date them because she knows what they are really like she is really protective of me sometimes and thats ok because my judgement is not always that good sometimes after I had the brain tumor surgery I do have some problems from the surgey and sometimes I will me women tell me without thinking it over thats why I always ask her if she knows them or if so what she thinks. I have been trying to ask her to recommend someone she has kind of bneen cauget up withn this new guy Serigo, My Myspace site is Franks MY Space Page So I quess I will kind of have to wait until her work schedule calms down and she is able to drive me to some meetings at nightb where there are more people at so I can maybe talk to some of them I take pain medication and I cant drive when I take it. If I go to a noon meeting like I did today I was in so much pain after the VA group for 1 1/2 hours then a 1 hour meeting that I had to leave early and go stright home and take a nap.