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Originally Posted by ExplodingSun56
I dont think people really like me that much. Usually when I'm around people I dont talk much so I'm pretty boring to be around. I just wont have anything to say. So people probably would rather be around other people than hang out with me. I feel like people like other people more than me and that really bothers me. I feel like such a loser cause everyone else is better than me and no one wants to be around someone who feels this way about themselves. I feel like people just look down on you for feeling this way so I'm an even biggger loser for feeling this way. So pretty much I'm just a huge loser cause I'm not really all that excitng, I'm having all these problems with anxiety being one of them, I feel like I cant go on and cant do things without other people's support and help cause I dont want to be alone and just feeling like this means I'm inferior to everyone else. It just seems that people who have these problems like depression or anxiety are seen as losers and inferior people and instead of trying to help these people with their problems they just put you down. I want that way of thinking to change.
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I just want to say, your not inferior to anyone. Stay surrounded by a healthy friend group. To be honest I notice more than anything the people around me demand to have "good vibes" or a good atmosphere around them, but not for the sake of others...just for themselves. My anxiety has made it hard to connect with people, but at most for myself. I'm constantly thinking on the what ifs, but the answer I'm reaching for is to enjoy the moment! Which is by far the hardest thing I could ask myself right now. Like come on, anxiety! why don't you just cooperate once so I can build that friend group! Ugh! But that's also why I'm on this site! What makes you so sure that people think your boring?! Is their anyone who's still around after knowing your quiet?
I'm not saying this to be rude, but being around us can be draining for people who don't understand your circumstances *hence the reason they might be misguided by the situation. Are their any safe spaces around you that you may have overlooked? If not would you be willing to create that space? I'm sure the same people that you want to be friends with are dealing with similar troubles, but might not understand the full context of their own mental situation.
Pm if you want to talk.