naynay you said: " Yes It is possible that someone not on meds is fine only bc they hve not had an episode in that time frame but the same can be said for those on meds. But how come the person not on meds who has an episode or needs hospital gets an "I told you so", while the person ON meds who gets those same symptoms or an episode or needs hospitalization gets sympathy and a "the meds must have stopped working"

CAN I GET AN AMEN!! you hit the nail on the head. Take a person who has episodes and is not on meds. Blamed because no meds

Take a person who is still Continuously having episodes ON meds : what then?

I believe in meds and I believe in no meds. But no one should be constantly pushing meds on people.