I am 20 and have been married for 4 years but have been having sex longer. It was great. But now that i don't really do it anymore because i just can't get things going it feel uncomfortable. If you found your true love/soulmate and didn't make love to them you would be missing out because it is beyond great. Their is a connection so deep. I would be afraid of having sex with random people because of all the std's out their and how so many people have them. If you masturbate and are happy with it then their is no reason to have sex i guess.