I have asked her to do more exciting things. I Aster if you want to go to the beach or do something as a family and she never responded back. She likes the nightlife, drinking and hanging out at bars. She never used to be this way until everything went down between me and her. She did have a time between her last marriage and my marriage where she went out and hung out with friends at clubs. She's 34 years old and I'm almost 36. I'm not trying to control her and tell her who she can and cannot be friends with. I just want her to love me as her husband and to have respect for marriage which I don't think it's too much to ask. as far as my children, we always do fun things together. They were in a baseball league That just recently ended. My children are big into video games, so sometimes it's a struggle just to get them outside. But I did take him to miniature golf about a week ago. My wife is still distant even though I do you go to warehouse and spend time with her. Sometimes it's like she doesn't even want me to touch her. She constantly brings up living separately until she finishes school which I don't see why