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Originally Posted by topherlee75
That's kind of where i am at. But I'm sick of all the wasted money and time. I fully aware of what's up and why. And really don't wanna dig into the dark side of the childhood stuff but fear it going to be a necessity. I got so tired of my family not understanding the word no there was a blow up over my grandmothers funeral and I was so uncomfortable being around family I didn't go. I refuse to be neglected by them anymore.
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Yes, I understand it can be expensive and a waste of time. That's why you need to educate yourself on what the issues are, can the therapists help you with those issues, ask the therapist lots of questions. Remember they are working for you, this is about YOU now and getting back on track with a life you can enjoy. Have you gone to the Childhood Emotional Neglect forum? Some good articles there. Dealing with dysfunctional families is every where , about every forum sadly.
Through a situation out there and ask others how they would handle it? No specifics, just general info.
Childhood stuff is the root of a lot of problems for people here. You are in understanding company here.