I'm sorry you guys were premies, with all the problems associated with premature birth.

I was born 2 wks overdue, in a highly sterile environment and whisked away by mid-wives and doctors to be put in the nursery, to allow my mother to rest.

My mother assures me that we had adequate time to bond after her initial rest (I have no reason to think otherwise).

I too look for reasons other than non-remembered childhood trauma to explain my DID dx.