Ok.

So without getting into too much detail, I have a question.

Why has it gotten to the point that a male who isn't pushy for sex something is wrong with him?

I am in a place where I want to date someone exclusively. I realize I have some mental health problems, and am working on them. Have bounced between therapists and know sooo much about where I am and a lot of what triggers me and can almost spell out a handbook on how to date me.

I am a cuddle freak. And yes, eventually is like to have sex but it's not important. I like to develop an emotional connection as well. But I get asked why I want to wait, so I have something? Am I gay? Is something wrong with them (just went thru the last one)

The other side is sometimes little things will set off my abandonment issues. I have no problem with letting someone know what's going on, taking about my feelings and what's in my head (I have been told I talk too much too).

I'm generally a very strong, assertive and proud person. I'll be the rock, foundation. But when I have my weak moments everyone runs.

Sometimes I need support too. Why has it gotten to the point it's either women who want completely supported, or some controlling witch. Lol.

And I'm stupid loyal. Almost doormat loyal.

Which tends to get me taken advantage of a lot.....