She told me that she grew a hardened heart towards me and that it would take time. Hearing that destroyed me, cause it is coming from someone you love. Since it was late, she offered that I can stay at the house. So I slept in our bed and she slept on the couch....so after I fell asleep, guess who came in the room...and guess who initiated sexual stuff...it was me, I was already asleep....its mixed signals like this that really hurts and makes me confused