wow. okay? i just dont understand why i would support you in not telling someon you have a disease that causes cancer. why would i tell you how to talk to your own boyfriend? im not you. if it were me I would have brought it up long ago by just saying "hey, i found out today that I have HPV." but you obviously can't do that so my suggestion would have been no help at all.

You didn't get the answer you wanted, so don't get mad at me. If you want someone to make you feel okay about not telling your boyfriend then don't come on here where you know what your answer will be. It wasn't intended to be "helpful" or "supportive". it was intended to kick you in the pants and let you know what youre doing to yourself and him by not telling. Sometimes people don't need unconditional support, they need to know how selfish theyre being. This has nothing to do with you not being able to get past your own issues, this is a health matter that can potentially cause CANCER! this isn't like the clap that a shot of penicillin will clear up. So don't get mad at me for being too "harsh" for you. That was a simple question that required a simple answer - YES TELL YOUR BOYFRIEND.