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Originally Posted by Jennifer 1967
You need to live your life and your mother needs to live hers. Maybe a therapist could help you with the wording so you can gently and slowly start untangling from your mother. If your mother is so enmeshed with you that all she does is obsess about you, she needs therapy too. You really need to gently and slowly break free to live your own life. Best wishes.  |
Thanks but I don't know if this is possible...I don't see this ever happening, my mother getting therapy...
I feel like I still don't understand this at all, what's happening, it just drives me crazy.
My T said that my mother sounds like playing the role of the victim...it was about another situation, but related...I don't know if this will ever get solved.
Also I don't speak to her very often, she is the one who always contacts me almost. Then of course I feel guilty.