Sam,

I am trying to put myself in your shoes and wow, what a terrible decisiton to have to make. I don't have the answer I'm afraid. If he is safe from being infected, then maybe not tell him. But, being an honest, forthright person myself, I would tell him. It seems like you are also much the same. By not telling him, you may end up berating yourself until you do tell him and you shouldn't put undo stress on yourself. Good Luck. Please keep us up to date on this one as I am truly interested. If you do not wish to display it in the forums, if comfortable, PM me.

Love and Light,
Peacemaker
Sherri