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Originally Posted by DarknessIsMyFriend
Believe me, I want to move past my past and I want to work through my issues.
Unfortunately, I can't be expected to do this on my own.
How the hell am I supposed to do anything when it's a struggle for me to get my basic needs met?
I just want somebody to help guide me.
I need to feel safe but I don't.
I accept that I'm weak and pathetic.
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At the end of the day, the only person you can consistently depend on to be there for you is yourself. You can wait for people to come and help you and guide you and take care of your basic needs, but that'll never be a guarantee. Take control of your own life day by day.
You should also look for help and support from wherever else you can, but don't wait for that, expect that or depend on that. Figure out what you need and what your goals are and break it down into small steps.
It'd be nice if after people suffered they got taken care of in return, but most of the time, those who have suffered and struggle have to work harder to get to where they want to be.
Life will change for the better the day you say, "I am capable and I will do this no matter what it takes," instead of "Why is everything so hard and unfair for me?"