I appreciate all the support. Wether it's destructive criticism or words or encouragement it's appreciated. I know it's tough at times because everyone's marriage problems are unique in their own right. I know half of the people wouldn't have put the effort in. I understand. I might be dumb for putting time in it just to possibly set myself up for hurt and disappointment, but when I made my vows I meant them. I just hope the outcome will be favorable and that we are able to respect eachother and grow old together. It's always been my dream to find that one person..