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MzJelloFluff said:
i have to believe that the stuff that felt bad really was bad.

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I've been there. It took a lot of my T telling me over and over, emphasizing, before I "saw" it. You'll see and believe it in your own time, MzJello! Just "accept" that it is true and act like it is true and eventually you'll know that it is.

My T kept going over and over the same "point", the same story and I got sick of it and almost wanted to cry out, "enough already!" but then I finally got it. It's horrible what our childhood people made us believe, but think how long you have believed it? Why would it take less time to "unbelieve" it? It's hard work changing our perspective!