Ooh, that would be really hard on me too. How do you feel about discussing it? Do you feel ready? If so, could you try testing the waters with her? You could always say something like... "I sent you an email last week that felt really important to me, and I was surprised that you didn't mention it in our session. Did you get it?"

That would let you verify that it made it to her, because honestly, sometimes emails don't make it. I've had a friend send me an email, then a 2nd one to follow up on something he said in the first - I got the 2nd one, but not the first! When I asked him what he was talking about, we figured it out. It was sort of crazy though, he sent them just a few minutes apart... and that first one *never* came through.

Good luck, and good for you for sending the email. It is SO not easy, but you took that step!