Welcome to PC. I'm sorry you are having such a hard time with your mother. Your post is a doozy. If it were me, I'd try to get some medical advice from a psychiatrist if you can to see if he can pinpoint what is going on. Your mother has some type of mental episode going on that not only needs to be treated for her sake but for your family as a whole. I can't begin to imagine what you've been through.

Do you by any chance have any of this recorded?