She is not responding to my email or Skype. She has my phone number, I am out of this business of meddling in people's affairs, she has a lot of close friends there and we are an Ocean apart. She can reach me if she wants but it
seemed that she does not want me to know her mobile. Well, in that case, I am off the hook. You can say that I am upset or scorned but I am not a hotline anymore. She is alive and I am not risking this crap again, (to feel like I put her over the edge) In Europe they have hotlines.
She is not
really suicidal as she never tried anything prior. She is moving to France after trying to break up a marriage (I would have never imagined her capable of doing something like that BTW). My feelings are hurt, that she would deny her mobile number. What kind of a friend is that?
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Originally Posted by MickeyCheeky
I'm not sure I understand.. why did you drop her from Skype and Facebook? Because she didn't reply to you? Because if that's the case, then yeah, it wasn't a really good idea :/
I understand dealing with a suicidal friend can be hard, but all you can really do is support her when she needs it. That's all you can do, really, especially since you're in two different states. The rest is up to her.. you did a good thing by giving her a therapist's address.
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