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Old Jun 13, 2017, 10:42 AM
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Originally Posted by treevoice View Post
Personally, I think it sounds like maybe this would be a good opportunity for you to stretch out of your comfort zone, you may surprise yourself with what you're capable of. But, your mental health is as good a reason as any to say no to something. If lying will cause you to feel bad about yourself, just be honest about why you don't want to do it. I know a lot of people try to hide mental health concerns from their employer but I work in human resources and I see a lot of problems that could have been avoided with some honesty - if they know you have issues they need to be aware of and work around, they will be less likely to put pressure on you to cross those boundaries.
Thank you. You're right, it would be a good opportunity. I need to focus on the positives, like how good I would feel about myself if I went through with it.
Problem is, it going to set off a lot of my triggers.