It sounds even more so that you should reach out to a professional to help you deal with these issues. Write these situations down and keep on hand. Give a copy to your counselor/therapist and make sure to keep a copy for yourself. Therapist on a whole have been disappointing for me and may be so for you as well. I've had more success with a Psychologist personally. They seem to be more interested in things that happened in earlier life. But again I provided a list of this that bother me and a list of things that happened in my earlier life that may be an issue with what I'm dealing with now.

They can only help us with what we tell them we are going through. Most are very open minded about what you tell them, if they are any good at all. And if they are not, that's a red flag to find someone else. Therapist are like everyone else. There are good ones and bad ones in the field. Don't take it personally if you run across a bad one. Just keep looking for that right one.