I am new here but do need some advice. I was raped 4 years ago and since then have had trouble in making close relationships. Thing is my local minister was counselling me about it for a long time and we have now developed a sexual relationship. I do love and trust him but a friend told me this morning that he doesn't love me he probably feels sorry for me and isn't getting sex from his own wife so is just using me as a way to help me feel better. WHat do you lot think?