[QUOTE=profound_betrayal;5693680]justafriend306, you are too decent

Typo - meant 'NOT' , below

If ever this happens again .... Or tell them that you realize that your efforts were inadequate not to their standards (to make them take ownership for their 'bad') and that you are sure (based on this), that you may NOT be able to help - wish them luck WITH LOVE, be nice & move on. [U]They will learn the hard way. [/U