His explanation is that we were already fighting about jealousy before this happened. I will admit that yes my insecurities have been a problem before this incident. It has been to the point of us not being able to socialize with his family because I'm insecure around my sister in law, his brothers wife. He says that I led him to hide it and he did it so that the question and fighting would stop. I am here for that reason because my jealousy and insecurities are ruining my life. Thank you for replying.