Sometimes T doesn't respond when something is going on in their world, [Yeah, I know they are not supposed to have a life outside of us but, sheesh]

So have faith that you two will reconnect. Your relationship is strong and you are both committed so I bet it will resolve.

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What did I say or not say? Why is it sometimes when I'm telling her things that seem important to me, I can't feel her understanding the importance? I think I

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I have experienced this many times--sometimes they are not with us because they are distracted (as above) and sometimes I do believe we are unable to bring the appropriate feeling to the present, so T is unable to feel along with us.

I have said to T, "I have to try and say this so that you understand how important it is to me."

There are so many reasons for misattunement but it hurts like hell.....like a mother who didn't pay attention.

((((Echoes))))

Peace