i work at a hospital. I also feel the pull of trying to do ten things at one time. Everything I do there is time sensitive. So my new solution is to be straight forward with people and telling them that I am only 1 person. I can not help everyone at once. I'm trying to work on my prioritizing skills as well. It doesn't make everyone hapy when I tell them that maybe they'll have to wait 10 more minutes for me to get to them but I'm feeling a bit calmer and more in control. I have a hard time speaking up for myself but I'm working on it.
On a side note, I applaud you for the job you do. It takes a special person to work with these children. i have a family member who is a special ed teacher and she truly loves her students and I under stand what you're saying about dealing with the administation and especially the parents. It seems like you're forever fighting for "your kids". Hang in there!!
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