</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
EvenMoreLost said:
</font><blockquote><div id="quote"><font class="small">Quote:</font>
nowheretorun said:
i might try to view it all from an angle that would provide relief to others who may find themselves in a similar situation future-wise...

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">

Thanks again for the replies. They help.

nowheretorun - I'm not sure what you mean by the above quote.

And no, I do not know what my local law enforcement (NYC) stands on the issue. I've been trying to call various HIV or gay and lesbian legal groups for some general info/advice, but I so far have not been able to speak to anyone yet. I'm not at the stage of hiring a lawyer or anything like that - just want some preliminary info.

</div></font></blockquote><font class="post">

hi morelost ... hope you're doin ok now... all considering that is..

in imagining myself in your place, if i was able to rise above the present situation and think of how mt next actions could help future victims in similar circumstances...

in dealing with the various professionals, given an ability to communicate clearly, try very hard to humanize the situation so those who are helping also empathize on a level that encourages diligent and reputable management of the matter...

sorry, i know i am confusing at times and if it still doesnt make sense, please disregard it altogether.. im talking about a proactive, multi-level healing

on the law enforcement side, budgets, caseload, current politics all work into the equations... but a predator as described would likely be taken seriously in NYC and the case added to a special unit specialized in these type matters...

you'd be given a case detective who becomes your contact... keep records and notes....

hope this helps..