Would it be really bad if I said that I wanted him to only drink a little whenever we are out together, and if I'm not along he can do what he wants?
I've been wanting to say that to him for a long time. But then I picture us being out with his friends together and them all drinking a lot and my boyfriend only drinking a little because I'm along sucking the fun from his life. Or I picture us being out together and him drinking a lot anyway and me standing there being bossy and all like "remember what we agreed on?" and just trying to control it anyway. I don't know if it would work, or if it's too controlling to ask that when we are out together, he not do it because it makes me uncomfortable.