well for any of you who read my previous post, i was so distressed because T and I didn't connect, and i was mad about that. But omg, i saw her today and it was AMAZINGGGGGGG. We connected like soo well. We talked about why i was feeling how i was feeling before. oh yea, and i asked her about her cut on her arm. hehehe. wow do i feel like a dumbass...most of you were right, it was not SI. She went rock climbing and decided to be careless and not wear her safety gear, and she slipped. BUT i told her that before i noticed the bandage i saw it in her eyes that something was not right. she said that yes, she does slip, but not with SI, with her eating. She said that she could see how i would think that though, and that she thinks many people did think that but i was the only one that asked! but she thanked me for my openness and honesty. i apologized if i made her feel uncomfortable and she said it's ok. i felt sooo close to her. heres my favorite part... she said she likes talking to me, and she likes relating to and laughing with me, and she wants to give attention. she also said she wants me to tell her if i want her to call me even if i just need to talk. i love her!!!!