I can totally relate to this. My current t has actually worked a "cubicle" job so I think he gets it, but my long term t never did and boy was he clueless about the workplace. I think he would ask me to relate to bosses and coworkers as if they were fair and reasonable people. My boss at the time was the greatest narcissist I've ever known and possibly a sociopath. His advice would have ruined me. Those ts that go right into the profession from school miss a few life lessons.