I absolutely get it! Your mother should be ashamed of herself! IMHO, she is guilty too! I've been in the same situation as you. I have a bad temper anyway...it seems like the abusers have more rights than the survivors. I'm sorry for you and your daughter, hon. I wish there was more I could say. My hope is that somehow he is exposed for who and what he is...if he ever does get locked up..trust me he won't survive.
{{hugs}}