I went through many therapists (and none of them were narcissistic) to find one who is a great fit. She is worth her weight in gold. I set the pace and let her know what I need to talk about. She has really helped me with solving problems, with anxiety and depression and in helping me correct cognitive distortions.

Go in with an open mind and give your therapist a chance. If it's not a good fit you can always try somebody else. Good luck and best wishes.