I think I was a little confused when I first read this but I did look it up. I just came across a bunch of articles about the difference in empathy and sympathy. There were a few other things about personality disorders. I dont think that there is anything wrong with the way you're feeling. I'm no expert. Im not the best at exactly trying feel what others feel during hard times. I usually feel kind of awkward. Like I'm out of place. Just want you to know that it doesn't make you a bad person.