I'm advising this should not be read by anyone easily triggered/offended, ty.

I've been advised not to make this long so I'll try not to let myself drag. When a woman has sex with a guy, and, at the start, everything is ok, all is consensual, is it rape if the guy then does something that the woman objects to, if that woman is pleading with the guy to stop what they are doing, who is in the wrong,and is it rape...or, because sex began with two consenting adults, is that women then a tease?

This probably doesn't make sense, see, until this afternoon, I thought I was crystal clear, regarding the issues of consent. I'm ok, but was in a situation that nearly had a bad ending. I'm ok physically, I was at a party, I ran into a drunk "friend" who thought no meant yes. Luckily help came quickly and, although not hurt, nothing is making a lot of sense now. I'd appreciate I put from men and women on this.