Well, I have never heard of this whisper site. I thought you said it was a place to vent and there were also sexual conversations.

Ok, so you answered my question about what you meant by your statement about how the sex was different. Honestly, I don't understand why she chose to do that with you, that, imo was sexually selfish of her. However, I am wondering what a hidden meaning could be in that maybe at times she went unsatisfied sexually with you. If you read about that, most or a high percentage of women don't orgasm through regular sex and most men don't know that, that doesn't mean I am assuming you are one man who doesn't know that either.

Her complaint about you has been that you were controlling and had problems with your temper. This could be a test to see if you would get angry and controlling. OR, if you could just give and not get upset about it. It could be that someone suggested she try this on you and wait and see what happens. If she did vent on a site like this she may very well be getting some suggestions, doesn't even have to come from a male you know, could be some woman that said, "try doing this and see how he reacts". I looked that app up and it's all anonymous and people comment/share their private issues etc. to see what others say. It's not all sexual either.

So, did you react to it? Or, did you just let go and let it lay? It's not the end of the world that she did this with you in the scheme of things and if you remained calm and did not get all angry or show an attitude about it, then it's a positive in someone who may struggle with needing control and anger issues.

This is not something I would consider trying myself, it just would not come to mind for me. I am just considering her major complaint about you and maybe she is going to try things to see if you "can" change and be more open minded.

So my next question is when she did that how did you actually react?