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Originally Posted by AzureCoast
That's excessive and really disrespectful.
Scarlet's idea is the right answer, but a person doesn't have to be 'good' all the time, and a reasonable confrontation isn't always effective with those with such unreasonable behavior. So your strategy might help ensure she gets the message loud and clear.
I say this because I can almost guarantee this has been brought to her attention before, and she still does it anyway. I'm ok that my T and doctors answer their cell phone once in awhile, but this is obnoxious.
I think however you do it will be standing up for yourself, so please do confront her.
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You're right. I never thought of it that way. It would make sense that perhaps she's done it with someone else. When I came back from my long break I had no idea where she placed the phone and it was out of sight which was odd. That phone is just getting closer and closer to me. Now she has it charging and ready to answer. I wasn't sure if I should take that as a compliment that she's laid back and feels comfortable being herself. It's not comfortable to me. She's strict about her boundaries. i dont set boundaries when I'm there. I'm thinking that she just thinks it doesn't bother me and so she will continue. However she knows me better and she knows that I hate confrontation and I will at times bite my tongue until I explode.