Hello everyone! This is a question thas has bugged my mind for a couple of years, and I need to put an answer to it. Thank you for your help!

My parents got divorced when I was around 1 year old. As I grew up I'd see him every Saturday or Sunday, he married again and had another kid. He was always quite open with his sex talk, even if I was a little girl. At first it didn't bother me, but when I got older I realized that this type of conversation was not appropiate because he'd talk to me about women and sex as if I was a male friend, and not his daughter.

He'd also touch/squeeze my breasts when we where in the car, or slap my butt when we where at his house. Sometimes he'd touch my legs and ask who they belonged to, I would say "you". At first I thought he was being "funny" or "protective as a father", never crossed my mind that he was being sexual, but after a few years it made me feel uncomfortable and I asked him to stop when I turned around 18 years old. I also told him I didn't want to talk about sex with him and he got upset and told me that he didn't raise me to be a prude, but he did stop.

Now, I'm confused cause he never had sex with me, he never intimidated me into anything, etc.

We don't see each other frequently because he makes me feel uncomfortable for the reasons mentioned above, and because we also had other serious fights about money and his lack of parenting skills.

So, was I abused? Or was he just being idiotic?

Thank you!