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Originally Posted by Kori Anders
I can understand that feeling of wanting to put trust in someone, but being too afraid
I am also black and have found it hard to understand where certain people don't find black people attractive, it makes me wonder because not all black people look alike, so how would they know that they don't find black people attractive if they haven't seen every single black person?
I believe when it comes to dying alone that we all die alone, there isn't any chaperones in death, it is a comforting thought for me that everyone dies alone, but I don't know if it is for you, but I am just giving you my two cents
I don't really have the words that might be what you want to hear right now, but I believe it's best to keep working on you and the more you learn to live with yourself as you are the more you will find it easier to love and trust someone else
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Thanks a lot for responding. I feel like a lot of people didn't respond for the race factor in the post, so it's nice to see another black person say they've had similar experiences.
I agree with what you said about not finding black people attractive. It's just racism, straight up. You can't find an entire race unattractive. That's just not possible. You'd have to travel the WHOLE world and see every single person from that race to come to that conclusion. It's racism/anti-blackness, and I'm really tired of dealing with it.
What you said about dying alone is something I can get why you'd believe. I believe everyone dies alone physically unless someone dies along with you, but not emotionally or spiritually. I think they'll always be someone there in spirit that's with you in your final moments.
And you're right. I feel like I've been working on myself for a while. Meanwhile there are people who don't work on themselves and can get anyone they want. So it's like...I'm putting in the actual effort and work but not getting much back, especially now. There's a lot of things going on (or not going on) in my life that's just weighing me down. =/
Thanks a lot for responding. I appreciate it a lot.
