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and maybe not really genuine...whats the crime

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That's the "crime". Why not be really genuine, warts and all. It's much more "comfortable", you don't have to think about it and compensate later in the other direction. Balance. That's the goal and I think it can only be attained by being genuine, responding to what is really there, not what we wish were there or even "need" to be there. It's like a checkbook. One doesn't treat either the "Bank error in your favor" (favorite Monopoly card :-) or the extra fees as if they don't matter.

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The bank credits your account for $1,000 more than you deposited. For once you've pulled that sweet Monopoly card in real life, "Bank error in your favor." Ka-ching!

Despite the overwhelming justification for why the universe owes you this money, it's as untouchable as a spanking-new sports car with the keys in the ignition and the doors wide open. Give in to temptation and you could find yourself going straight to jail -- or at least being threatened with jail if you don't want to part with the ill-gotten gains. (From bankrate.com.)

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