No out of session contact for either M or L. M has said explicitly that it is a boundary. L it just isn't something we do though occasionally she'll give me an "email every day" assignment for a week if she's worried about my stability. No calling or texting. I did talk on the phone daily with L after the fire though, because she was out of town. 45 minutes a day, no charge. That was an exceptional situation.

I am glad for the usual no contact boundaries. Otherwise I think our relationships would be too intense. I am glad we all have a week to ourselves.