Why don't we? I have never understood this. We can judge, we are in fact forced to when we sit in a group of 12 on a jury. I have every right to judge. And no one has never pointed me to anything that casts doubt on that. But also, assuming that it is not nice to Judge... as a social convention.. when someone actively solicits my money, leave time, and support.. do I not then have some right to judge before giving? Why do they have a right to cause a problem with full abandon and then I am just compelled to help them?