It sounds like she might not be a very good therapist for you. Could you try someone else do you think?

My therapist takes vacations very seriously. It's really evident that vacations can be a huge issue that people need to prepare for. He tells me about them weeks or months in advance, so that I can plan other things to do with my session time. It sounds like your therapist maybe doesn't know all that much about dealing with people with a lot of trauma in their backgrounds.