I'll be civil. The court will decide the days, and it will be pick up and drop off. Don't have to say nothing too her. It's crappy how the outcome came and I was so enraged that she lied to me. I told her all she had to do was divorce me instead of hurting me like this. I never physically cheated or drank to escape. I can get over texting but another guy putting his thing inside my wife...I can't deal with that. She's unloyal, a liar and I'll never be able to trust her again much less look at her. I just hope she is happy with physically doing that to me. It's painful cause now I see why she needed "Space"...to screw him..