I really don't think that Candybear meant to be demeaning when she spoke. I took it to be a joke. Here it is close to Christmas and I'm sure some of us, ME, are strung just a little bit tight these days!! I'm working AND keeping my 5 year old granddaughter with me 24/7 and I'm about ready to scream. So, let's all kick back, look for some hemp bras or something else to light and enjoy each other. I am so grateful for this place that I hate to see any bickering......peace??? Pat