All of the advise you have received is right on. That man had no business crossing "professional and ethical lines!" May I add that for a minister, he also crossed MORAL lines? Shame on HIM!! He took advantage of you and the situtation.

Run like hell in the opposite direction to any of the agencies that have been mentioned in this thread. He deserves nothing less than to be reported to the headquarters of his denomination or the very least, the elders of his church! Shame! Shame on HIM!!

You are NOT stupid, just very vulnerable and he took advantage of you.

Please take care of YOU.