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Old Jun 18, 2017, 06:14 AM
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Originally Posted by Rose76 View Post
You can't solve everything in your head, by thinking about things. You solve problems in the workshop of life, by living day to day, seeing what behavior on your part gets a good outcome and what doesn't. There's probably some aspect of life in which you lack adequate experience. About the only thing you'll get experienced in by sitting in a therapist's office is you'll get experienced at talking to therapists. That's an artificial relationship where someone gives you their undivided attention.
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This is an interesting opinion and I've been thinking about this but I think I see it a bit differently. Through talking to a therapist (in certain therapeutic approaches) someone can actually test out and even change different kinds of behaviours. Sure, life won't automatically change from that as one needs to act like that in a "real" social setting as well, but basically everything influences everything. Talking to a therapist, even if it happens in an isolated setting, it doesn't end there, I mean, it affects and changes a persons perspective.
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